Ayo:
There is nothing intrinsically wrong with a query or querying - after all, one is under the authority of some one or some institution or the other - but a query should be done (i) by a recognized authority for (ii) action related to the office/position in question. Any one of those two things is missing, and the person being "queried" is thereby humiliatingly insulted - by an condemnable insulter.
The high office of a Vice-Chancellor should not be so treated like a "boy-boy." If it were to happen, I would studiously ignore it.
I can be queried by the National Universities Commission or Council of my university for not doing my job. But I should not be queried by the First Lady for anything (she is not in any line of authority over me), and were it to be on an issue regarding the university (eg inviting her to campus and treating her shabbily), I may be queried by Council but not directly by her, and certainly NOT for NOT attending her mother's funeral. If it were under the typical gentle Yoruba enquiry ("Se ko si nkan ti a o fi ri e ni....?", that is I hope nothing was wrong why we did not see you at....), that is quite understandable.
The irksome-ness here is in particular that the QUERY NEVER happened, and secondly I know the source and reason of the mischievous plant of a rumor ( a silly fellow called Nebukadineze Adiele); the mischief of propagating it (an e-rag publisher named Elombah Daniel) - both trying to score some personal embarrassment - and an inattentive e-publisher (Osun Defender) merely out to embarrass the First Lady and repeating a lie without checking the source, and my friend Ikhide who should have contacted me directly rather than asking "sarcastically" publicly about this issue - for which he has apologized.
Trust that you understand.
And there you have it.
Bolaji Aluko
On Fri, Dec 6, 2013 at 7:57 PM, Ayo Obe <ayo.m.o.obe@gmail.com> wrote:
I've never understood why the mere idea of a query always provokes such anger - but I admit that I have never been in public service. It is is though the word 'query' has no actual meaning (Why did you do or not do that? This is my explanation.) but is in itself charge, verdict and sentence wrapped up in one.But if an idiotic query is issued, why would it reflect on the person queried? One might legitimately ignore it. Even though one might hope in vain that shame would prevent the unanswered query from being repeated or pursued!I say that because the First Lady's spokesperson took time to reject the condolence visit paid to her on the death of her mother by the First Lady of Rivers state because said (lesser) First Lady signed the condolence register in Rivers, but did not come to condole the (greater) First Lady at Aso Rock "as everybody else had been doing". You and I might have imagined that if there was a condolence book, then condolences were being received where it was placed, but said spokesperson insisted that "The First Lady was not receiving condolences there!" Ah, sorry o!
AyoI invite you to follow me on Twitter @naijamaI never believed that rubbish for a second because I know it can not be true. Whoever worth his salt will not dance to such music. Prof continue your work. Oju ti o ba role ni Irore nso!!! egbe nbi gbo; kii se oro ojo ori; Olorun ko nii je kari ina ni kanga.--On Fri, Dec 6, 2013 at 1:57 AM, Mobolaji Aluko <alukome@gmail.com> wrote:--Ikhide:How can it be true? In my service as a VC, despite being a government official, I have not cut that image for anyone to consider doing that to me.So the query is a blatant lie....it is one stupid fellow called Nebukadineze Adiele - behaving true to ilk - writing rubbish in what he considers comical speculation on the Internet, knowing that there are enough Nigerians that are either inattentive (hopefully not you), or believing of anything of our Nigerian leaders and/or their associates (again hopefully not you.) Adiele is one of a set of Nigerian guys - particularly abroad - who have little or no moral core, would-be assassins of character and kidnappers of image, who would do the same and encourage the same where they living in Nigeria.And Elombah.com, a filthy e-rag anchored by Daniel Elombah, gives the speculation "original" coverage (http://elombah.com/index.php/special-reports/19363-dame-jonathan-queries-vc-otuoke-university-for-failing-to-attend-mum-s-burial-inside-details-of-the-extravagant-burial) because of their common filthy un-filfullable agenda.Look, Ikhide: there are more important things to discuss - like the passing away of the Great Mandela. The contrast he provided to the little minds that dot the Nigerian horizon both at home and abroad is galling.And there you have it.Bolaji AlukoShaking his headOn Thu, Dec 5, 2013 at 3:59 PM, Ikhide <xokigbo@yahoo.com> wrote:Prof na true? Shame on you!- IkhideStalk my blog at http://www.xokigbo.com/Follow me on Twitter: @ikhideJoin me on Facebook: www.facebook.com/ikhide
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